Me? Nephrite. aka Jade. Stone, first and foremost. Being human comes later. Nah. I'm just kidding. Film fanatic. Lit Major. Loves books (DUH). Dragon baby. Don't watch much TV. I want to live like its the last moon rising and scream, just like no one's there. Here, I might lose all of my control. Don't blame me later if you don't wanna heed my warning. sometimes I say things that don't come out right but its all in the heat of the moment. It's not too late for you to turn back now. In these Invisible Cities I will build by myself, I hope you will enjoy yourself. The city will be made of green and black. There will be no bed of roses, but a crown of thorns. There will be wilted red roses and drooping stalks of violets. There will be rainbows, but with no pots of gold. There will be more rain than sun, more tears than smiles. What? Did you think this was some kind of fairytale? Baby, wake up and smell the flowers. There are none. Where did the flowers go? I don't know. And then you will see the world through my eyes.






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here's the thing, we started out friends
Friday, June 15, 2007
Nephrite at 1:30:00 PM


hey. yesterday's entry below.

the reason why is also there.

haha.

anyways. to those who have been advising me, u all probably know what a fool i am now for trusting n believing him. haha. i guess 'innocent until proven guilty', huh. i'm sorry i did trust all ur instincts, let alone my own. if i'd been more wary i'd have seen it all. but no. all i saw was the person i met years ago. i'm sorry for everything. to ms S n ahem. i think, there are some mistakes i made that i havent told u abt and if i did, u might even hate me. though i suppose u can say it all doesnt matter now cux "nothing" resulted and so it isnt impt anymore. i'm sorry u all had to put up with my crap. n be my rubblish bins. lol.


andand. for the person who keeps saying i treat him like nothing, fine. i'll give it to u. and now u'll really know how i treat people who mean NOTHING to me. even my enemy, if i had one, would mean something to me. so anyways, one dose of nought coming up for a zero person.
this is why my friends are everything to me. love fades easily, friendship doesnt. it may fade now. but 10 yrs later if friends who are separated meet again, there are still 'good' feelings. if lovers met up again, there is only sweet bitterness. this is why i can put my friends' needs above my own. i cant help it if they don't or wont do it for me. or if they forget abt me. but things should be done unconditionally. this is the concept u have NEVER grasped for all the time that u spent talking to me.


14th june 07

someone hogged the modem so I have resorted to typing this shit on word.

Right now the song ‘everything I’m not’ is replaying itself in my head and I find every word of the song apt.

I’m glad I was over chilli flake before the worst shock of my puny life came but nonetheless.

The whole thing has allowed me to truly see what kind of friend and how self absorbed he is. And he’s supposedly, SUPPOSEDLY ‘grateful 4 life’

Grateful my ass okay. The only gratitude I see is the shit being blown back at me. As though u had no choice but to shit in front of a fan with ur head between ur legs or sth.

Today I’ve discovered how utterly alone I am and how dependent I was on him in the beginning of this year. The chats we’d have on anything, everything or plain nonsense.

And of how I’d take all the complaints and try to help, get myself worried over whether he’s ok or not. The hurt im feeling now is not a ‘love-hurt’ but a ‘friend-hurt’. Like the kind where u thought u could trust a person with ur life then when u need them most they just refuse to give u any time of their day or help or whatsoever. This is the kind of friend he is. But BGR wise he’s a despo. I dunno whats the hurry. Maybe he calculates the apocalypse coming in the near future. Which would also explain why he NEVER considers the consequences of his selfishness and indecision n pure lack of friggin patience.

But but. It doesn’t explain why he lies so much. If he was Pinocchio his nose would prob cover the gr8 wall of china like, twice over. Or maybe the amazon river too. But no. to him. All his lies are JUSTIFIED. Sorry hon, too bad n too late, I don’t have ANY trust left. I condemn u as a friend. seriously. i have no patience nor respect for people who keep lying. I respect u as a living being but that’s abt it.

Whatever it is u’re going for now. I know a couple of things but this time I’m not going to share any with. Why? If u say ‘grateful’ to me for life one more time I just might find myself six feet under. Those words are apocalyptic all by themselves. And I don’t want to appear ‘jealous’ or psychotic. No thank you. You can keep the drama in ur own life thanks. Mine is dramatic enough. And since u like shifting the blame, which I know u’re probably doing now, I don’t want to be another ‘factor’ that adds to the ‘messed up’ life you have. And u can ‘shift’ all u want. U’ll be the fall guy at the end cuz u’ll noe all on ur own, that all of it was ur own doing. We ALL have CHOICES. Its wad u make of ‘em.

You choose the hard way, good luck to u. just don’t drag us all down with u. .

Whatever the case, friends don’t do crap like what u’re doing to me right now.

I had your back, I backed u up.
Whatever I did was never enough.
Whatever’s inside’s now all used up.
You, you, all u ever thought abt was you.
What goes around comes around u should know by now.
Did you think that I would look the other way?

Here’s somethings abt me for the GUYS who don’t know:

  1. I wear what I want and when I want. Even if it looks like crap.
  2. I am NOT CUTE.
  3. I am sarcastic and cynical sometimes. Savvy?
  4. I don’t whine and manja I find it oh-so irritating.
  5. I don’t have a mind-blowing, unforgettable face so cut the crap and don’t suck up. Unless u want it to fall flat in ur face.
  6. I contradict myself
  7. I can be a malcontent
  8. I laugh like a mad woman, see if I don’t
  9. im almost always cheery
  10. I distrust smooth talkers
  11. narcissistic people are turn-offs
  12. I’m am not possessive and therefore expect the same in turn.
  13. I HATE it when there’s sth up and ppl still say ‘nth’
  14. I totally believe in karma
  15. I hate homophobic people, its THEIR life, not urs.
  16. my friends are n will be important to me. Even at 3 am in the morning.
  17. break my trust and u’ll have to go a long way to earn it back
  18. I forgive but NEVER forget.
  19. details are EVERYTHING.
  20. for the last time, I am NOT CUTE and cant be bothered ACTING CUTE either. I’m practical and str8 to the point, maybe outright blunt but NEVER materialistic. I couldn’t care less abt money

you said don’t go changing from the start
thought u were sth different but then it all fell apart.
Like You’re SO perfect, no one measures up.
Yea, all by yourself and all messed up.

Hmmm.
baby kangeroo had told me some enlightening stuff.
Will share in private.
Interesting …….but amusing at the same time.




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